What gay guy is my type
What is it with women and gay men?
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There’s something very erroneous with the type of man who would romantically pursue a woman to the point that HE risks splitting up a strong group of excellent friends, all while letting the miss feel the split would be due to her retain bad actions. But I guess it’s just another example of why some women are so eager to be friends with same-sex attracted men, because it just eliminates a lot of unnecessary tension. As I stated above I haven’t been friends with gay men, but fortunately I’ve always been the type of girl who could be “brutally honest” while not taking responsibility for any unpleasant results of a man’s bad behavior.
But I’ve also been able to convince a few men who were romantically interested that a platonic friendship was more worthwhile. Some who were first staunchly opposed to the idea thanked me later. Often they said they had never been able to fathom a friendship with a woman, but afterward felt excel for it, and more well-rounded. These were basically decent guys who I thought would construct good friends, despite their initial
For gay and bi men, the line between want and envy – between wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to be them – can easily become blurred. (I’ll never forget the magical two months I spent in wearing a baseball cap in a tragic attempt to ape the aesthetic of a guy I fancied.) Our appetite in men can often act as a mirror for all sorts of neuroses and yearnings.
Sure you can claim to not have a “type”, but if you watch back over your love-related and sexual history, can you honestly say that a pattern doesn’t emerge? If having a liking is beneath you (“I&#;m more into intelligence and humour than anything else”) then why does your roll-call of conquests resemble a gay rugby team?
No, when it comes to desire, you’re as base and depraved as everything else. We&#;ve already gone for the vertical guys, straight girls, queer woman and bi women. Now it&#;s your turn, lgbtq+ and bi men. Here’s what your taste says about you.
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Types
Some gay men use types to describe, identify and communicate themselves. Who hasn't heard someone say “he’s my type" or been asked if a guy is yours? There is always some disagreement around the terms we utilize and whether we should use them at all.
Therefore, you should be sensitive if applying a type to someone, bearing in mind some gay men reject them altogether as narrow, superficial, and demeaning. Equally, some use types affectionately and as a convenient shorthand.
It's a bit of a bear pit (no pun intended), but here's our take on types, though you are perfectly entitled to pitch them out and be your own gay, your own homo, queer, etc.
Physical types and personal characteristics
Some guys are primarily attracted to physical types of gay men (eg: bears, twinks, and muscle guys) while some find characteristics in men most attractive (eg: warmth, intelligence, and humour). Others mix and match and understanding these distinctions is important.
For example, the type(s) of men we find attractive sexually may not necessarily be the qualities we are looking for to sust
As an individual, you resist being put into a "box" or stereotyped, correct? We idea so. You value being commended for your uniqueness. Totally understandable! But - as hypocritical as it might seem - you look for ways to generalize about others. Because, as a famous comic once put it, "Stereotyping people saves a LOT of time!"
When it comes to love, sex and romance, figuring out your "type" should be as easy as falling off a log. ("Ouch!" you are probably saying. "Why would I want to act THAT?") But, after a failed relationship (or two or three), it has become apparent: you need to know more about the person you'd do foremost with. "The One" you SHOULD be searching for.
We hear you! This section, "What Type Of Boy Is Your Type?" is devoted to affair quizzes that will reveal, in the end, the sort of male who'll likely be leading for you. That's a LOT of self-knowledge waiting to be delivered! So go ahead! "The perfect guy," "Your dream guy," or even, "Your soulmate" (his typ