Making my husband gay
What Would You Do If You Found Out Your Husband Was Gay?
It’s funny. As he came out of the closet, I felt like I was creature forced in. No-one understood. No-one really knew what to state. When he came out, he was greeted with encouragement and affirmation. There were support groups for gay married men, forums where he could discuss what he was going through. He was finally being true to himself, forging a new self, taking his destiny into his own hands. I was left alone to pick up the pieces. Unseen. Unheard.
We met in our late teens and the attraction was instant: he was very cute, and always had a bevy of adoring women hanging out of him, but he seemed to only hold eyes for me. We had the same sense of humour, liked the same things, and six weeks later, we hooked up and were one of the first couples in the gang to marry and agree down.
The first question everyone asks me is, did I contain any idea back then about his sexuality? Any inkling? And the answer is no, I didn’t. But then again, I don’t think he did either. Not really. We were new and fairly innocent. I, for one, di
Is My Husband Gay? 10 Possible Signs Ways to Handle This
Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Is my husband gay?” Maybe you’ve noticed changes in his behavior, heartfelt distance, or a lack of intimacy that leaves you feeling uncertain.
Questioning your spouse’s sexual orientation can be overwhelming, especially when you’re unsure of the signs or how to approach the situation. While assumptions can be misleading, understanding key indicators may help you gain clarity.
This article explores possible signs that your husband might be gay, the impact on your relationship, and how to have an open, honest conversation.
More importantly, you’ll learn how to cope and move forward, whether that means staying together, separating, or redefining your relationship. Navigating this situation with understanding and respect is essential for both you and your husband.
What does it signify to be gay?
Being lgbtq+ means being emotionally, romantically, and/or sexually attracted to people of the similar gender. It’s a fundamental aspe
(Closed) I believe my husband may contain no idea he’s gay.
I think you have bigger issues than believing your husband is gay Like having married him in the first place; sounds like youve never been happy in this relationship.
Im not entirely sure what you want to hear either. You say youre unhappy and want to leave, etc but you also state youre going to let him own his way and not get a divorce. Youve already resigned yourself to being unhappy so are you just venting or execute you want us to tell you your husband is gay to create you feel better?
He doesnt sound homosexual, to be perfectly honest. He has a family member who is lgbtq+ but everyone else in his family is against it so Im sure his attitude is a result of his upbringing. You have no proof that he is in fact same-sex attracted and I experience like youre accusing him to build yourself feel finer about your failing marriage.
If you crave to be truly happy in experience, youre going to have to undertake it without him because youre obviously not on the same page. Doesnt sound like you ever were.
ReplyBeing a Husband to Ones Husband Makes for a Great Partnership
When Chris and I first got married, I was charmed and amused by the notion that I, a man-person, now had a Husband.
I had a Husband while simultaneously being a Husband myself.
My inner child loved it, finding it both weird and silly. That kid voice in my head giggled: Hes your HUSBAND? But youre both boys!
It was unusual, and extremely pleasing, to discuss about my Husband, rather than my Partner. And waaay better than talking about my Boyfriend.
I also realized how much I enjoyed hearing myself organism referred to as Husband once again, in this new chapter of my life.
When your husband calls you Husband its really something thrilling. It means you have a distinctly male role for someone, a masculine presence in someones life. At least, that is how my old-school, straight-raised thinker translated it. Being Chriss husband meant I was the Man in his life. Im the one who would wrap him up in my arms when he needs to feel comforted or sound. My shoulder would be the one he could lean on f